Connecting Hearts Coaching

Connecting Hearts Coaching
Carolyn at the park

Monday, July 26, 2010

A month of Sundays

That's about how long I have been away from my blogging. I apologize and commit to doing better.

There are multiple excuses for not blogging. Want to hear them? Of course you do. My darling grandson has been with us and I have been getting up early -- 6:00 a.m.(Really, I am telling the truth) to prepare his lunch and transport him to camp.

Not buying that? What about I have been catching up on my annual medical exams? Seriously, I have almost completed all of my annual exams. I have the final one tomorrow and I will be free until this time next year.

What about this? I have been going to the doctor with my husband. No?

Would you believe I have been busy helping with the Women's Conference at church? I got up last week at the crack of dawn to go to support Jackie Hill, Jackie Hill Ministries, on Great Day Houston. I told Jackie that she was S-P-E-C-I-A-L because I don't get up early. She chuckled and said "I've been told that I am special!"

OK, OK, I give up. If ALL that I have talked about is not enough to convince you that I have been busy I am going to STOP right here.

Check back in a day or two to see if I am back on track. I need the accountability.

It's great to be back. See you tomorrow.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Baby Girl, Grandson and Sister

My favorite daughter (I only have one)and my sister are here with me. They came home for their cousin's/niece's graduation. In addition to my niece's graduation, my daughter's Godson is graduating. Hard to believe. My grandson was already here - I never miss an opportunity to acknowledge his presence!

The beauty of the relationship with my daughter and her Godson is that his mother and my daughter met each other twenty years ago today during their college orientation. They have remained friends for twenty years; "tagging" each other with love, support and just being there for each other. Talking about a wonderful friendship.

We should all be so blessed to have a long lasting loving friend.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Michelle the Magician

My former stylist had a plaque on her work station that read: I am a beautician not a magician!

I always thought it was funny and laughed about it for years. I also agreed with the saying until today.

My hair was wicked! I had it in a ponytail and I had on a baseball cap. Honestly, it was very embarrassing and horrible the shape my hair was in.

Normally, when I make an appointment I tell Michelle that it's time because my hair looks like a nest. When she sees me, she says: your hair still looks good. Not today!! Today, she said: I have never seen your hair look like this! I explained I have been walking and exercising and just had not taken care of my hair.

No worries, no worries, Michelle "tagged" me today. She worked her magic. My hair is gorgeous. She was a magician today. If you could see my hair, you would agree and help me find a plaque for her that reads: Michelle the Magician!

My relationship with my stylist is one to die for. Check her out -- you will love her and will not let anyone else ever take care of your hair.

Michelle the Magician and her might wand--her flatiron.

Thank you Michelle for your friend ship and caring for my hair

Sunday, May 30, 2010

A grad and a college student

Today, I had one niece leave home for college and one graduate from high school.

My sister took her little baby daughter to college, UT Austin, for a summer program. My mother and one of my sisters were so emotionally distraught because to them it seems like yesterday she was going to Kindergarten and now she is in college.

She will do great.

My other niece was excited first because she was graduating and first again because her Grandmother and PaPa were here. She is excited about going to Freshman Orientation on Wednesday. Grandmother and PaPa are taking her to orientation.

Well, I will get prepared for Tuesday, that's PaPa's birthday.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Best Burgers

Tagged my husband with one of the best burgers ever. I do not like to cook -- not at all; however, today, I prepared dinner...hamburgers.

This was a burger like no other. Beef patty, bacon, ham, Swiss and American cheese, lettuce, tomato, onion and pickle. It was jumbo burger on a toasted bun. Yum.

Next, I think I will try to perfect tacos!!

Friday, May 28, 2010

Looking Good

My niece had her hair done today for her graduation from high school. She has beautiful hair and when Michelle finished with it it was beautifuler (I know it's most beautiful)

She is excited about seeing Grandmother and PaPa. They arrive tomorrow all the way from the Washington D.C. area.

Well, all I gotta say is way to go Jas. I am proud of you.

On a not so pleasan note, my grandson went home today )o:

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Great Reprise Tonight

pSal taught a great reprise tonight. We were divided into two groups, ladies and men, to discussed His Needs. Very interesting discussion about our relationship with our mate and how we satisfy his needs.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

His Needs Teleseminar outline is finished

Yea, the outline for the His Needs Teleseminar is finished. I was so on point today with this project because my goal was to finish the outline and I did.

I am excited about this Teleseminar and based on the responses from the post card mailings and the ezine others are also.

As suggested by Alex, I have to get a USB microphone and I will be set...just waiting on June 8 to get here (that's the date of the Teleseminar).

Since I have completed the outline for His Needs, I best start on the outline for Her Needs because that Teleseminar is scheduled for June 22.

Not to follow in the shoes of Goof Off Goose but I'll get busy on that tomorrow.

What is going on with me

I think I have fallen off the wagon A-G-A-I-N! I was doing so good; however for the past few days, I have done so bad. What in the world is going on with me that I am forgetting to post on my blog?

On Monday night, my grandson and I went to Houston Grand Prix because he wanted to ride the go carts. Me being the attentive grandmother that I am said let's go.

His first request was: can we ride with the top down. My response: Of course, there is no sun so down with the top. The weather was beautiful -- a bright moon, cool temperature and NO humidity. Loving it.

He enjoyed himself and and started back home when we heard a very loud POP. Neither of us know what happened. Shortly after the POP, my grandson said GiGi, I hear a ticking noise. I heard it also but I thought it was the van next to me. Well, it wasn't, it was our vehicle. I exited the beltway, turned into a parking lot to see if the tire was flat. My grandson (who is 12 years old) got out to inspect the tires and found a piece of metal the size of a quarter in the left rear tire.

We got back in the car and headed home because I convinced him we would be OK. He urged me to stay on the feeder...just in case. I obeyed.

Thanks be to God we made it home without incident.

His night of fun riding with the top down and driving a go cart was not spoiled by a flat tire.

God is Good.. all the time!

Monday, May 24, 2010

Is today Sunday?

Ok, Ok, I forgot to post an entry on Sunday so here goes.

My grandson and I went to church and enjoyed another pSal message. We are having Family Boot Camp through Father's Day and every one was clad in their camouflage. pSal had on pink camo with lots of bling, of course! Kelly was decked out head to toe. Seriously, she had on combat boots and a beret. The Copelands had the camo working. Yes, I wore camo too.

pSal's message was on Her Needs --she kept it real.

I picked up my WOO, WHAM, WHOA, WHEE, WOW - 5 Stages of a Relationship CD, from Alex Nora after church. He did a great job on it and the music is tight. (Is that still current? I can't keep up any more.)

My grandson rapped (Christian) until after midnight. He wants to record a rap CD and I will see to it that we make that happen cause he is good.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

I saw and heard it for myself

Doing what I love doing gives me such a wonderful feeling. I love the magic of coaching -- especially relationship coaching. To be able to help couples get to that aha moment is exhilarating for me as well as for them.

I witnessed a strong man admit he was wrong, explain why he did what he did, sincerely apologized and asked for forgiveness. He admitted to a couple of other things because he wants to mend his relationship and prepare the relationship for a commitment. Something they both indicated they want. Kudos for the dude.

Kudos to the couple for seeking help before they get married.

I was so excited to see progress in the session. I will be checking in with them during the week.

Friday, May 21, 2010

A Flea in Her Ear -- Again

Texas Repertory Theater's production of A Flea in Her Ear was fabulous. I saw the play for the second time tonight and it was great. The cast was phenomenal. Although they were good two weeks ago, they were even better tonight.

I had a special treat tonight, I had the pleasure of meeting Larry Lipton. He was at the theater photographing a couple who got engaged right there on the stage -- after the show of course.

Larry and I chatted for a few minutes outside the theater as well as exchanged business cards. I have permission to add his e-mail address to my e-mail list. He is a very interesting man. I thoroughly enjoyed our chat and appreciate the information he shared with me on how to grow my business.

I will have to visit with him again to learn more about the HR organization he mentioned.

Glad I volunteered tonight.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

My grandson the volunteer

Volunteering is so rewarding...just ask my grandson. Today was our day to deliver meals-on-wheels and D. helped.

After introducing himself and shaking hands with everyone, he delivered the meals. The joy of the trip was at Mr. C's. Mr. C told us he was selling a 1989 Dodge Charger with 40,000 miles. I asked "where is it" and he replied "in the garage."

My husband and grandson wanted to see this beauty. I must admit that I was equally excited and expected to see an orange Dodge Charger, straight from the Dukes of Hazard.

We all walked over to the garage, Mr. C opened it as the three of us stood there with anticipation. The garage door was opened and the vehicle was revealed; however, it was not a Dodge Charger, it was a Dodge Ram. We were all disappointed. I went back to the car.

As we headed back to the Meals-on-Wheels office, my grandson said "boy, do I feel good." "Doing that makes me feel good." "I love helping people."

I think he has it...the spirit of volunteerism. That boy is so much like his paternal grandmother (that would be me)!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Oh happy day

Oh happy day...I picked up my favorite grandson today. He is out of school for the summer. He passed to the 7th grade and will be attending Stephen F. Austin Odyssey Academy next year.

We will have a fabulous summer. We would really like to tour the United States by car. Traveling to Montana, North Dakota, South Dakota, Oregon, Colorado, Wyoming and work our way back to Texas. Sounds exciting huh.

Tomorrow, we will do meal-on-wheels and let my grandson "tag" everyone on our route. He enjoyed serving the clients when he delivered meals last year during the Christmas break.

We also discussed going to Hawaii -- I think we will surf while we are there.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Jim's Cake Project

This was another productive day for me. In looking for a facility to hold a seminar, I had an opportunity to tour the Lone Star College Learning Center. Myra took good care of me. She was an excellent "tour guide." She was articulate, professional and very personable. Talking about making me proud.

Now, about the cake. Jim decided he wanted to bake a cake with a frosting and topping. Here is the kicker, I got to make the frosting and topping. So Jim's Cake Project became our project! The frosting and topping had to be made in a double boiler and constantly stirred. That was my job. I "tagged" him by helping with the most difficult part of the entire project.

Monday, May 17, 2010

I did it!

Yesterday, I said today would be a super productive day and it was.

Although it is my self proclaimed "day off", I got up very early, about 7:45 a.m. That's early for me and remember, it's my "day off."

I drove over to the mid-town area to deliver some things to my Sister in Christ. Left there, stopped at several Dollar General stores looking for Snapple Ice Tea mix for my husband -- no luck.

Called a potential client and set-up a tentative time to meet. Gotta check with the Queen before we finalize the session.

Spoke with both of my children and my grandson. Did not chat with my daughter very long because she was preparing for a cake party at her desk (I don't know either).

When I got home, I forwarded the clean draft of my book to my review team of one, my brother. I will get his comments/recommendations/suggestions in a day or two because he does everything timely. I want to be just like him when I grow up.

My husband needed some lemons because he is baking a cake tomorrow so I "tagged" him by going out, again, for the lemons.

Now if that is not productive for someone on their day off, I don't know what is!

It's time to go to bec. That is how our family spells bed. When my favorite son was three years old, he announced he was getting ready for bec so we started spelling bed bec in his honor. I am sure spell check will try hard to figure out what I am trying to spell. Here's an idea: if we all start using the word bec, it will get added to the dictionary. OK, OK, it was just a thought.

Night, Night.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

I finished the first draft

Five Stages of a Relationship - the draft of my version is finished. I have a nice clean draft that is ready to be edited.

Yesterday, I developed a e-flyer to pre-order the WOO, WHAM, WHOA, WHEE, WOW, Five Stages of a Relationship CD.

This was a great day-- nice weather, great message at church and Alex was there. I almost cried because I was so happy to see him. I had to really compose myself to keep from crying tears of joy.

Had my Sunday afternoon nap!

Tomorrow, I plan on being SUPER productive.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Baby Brother

My baby brother (he's over 50) surprised my Mom last night by showing up at her home about 9 p.m. I was surprised by speaking with him over the phone when my Mom called me. I actually thought they were on a 3-way call!

This afternoon, my husband and I drove out to my Mom's to visit with my baby brother. It was good to see him. It has been almost a year since he was home. We had a great time discussing everything...food, politics, traveling, the military, family, grand children, work, the weather, gadgets and anything else that came to mind.

I know he has enjoyed his visit because my Mom cooked
all of his favorite foods. I know because I peeked. She had pinto beans (his absolute favorite), neck bones, skillet bread (my favorite--yes, I did eat a piece), blackberry cobbler and lots more.

When we are all home, Mom cooks our favorite dish. Talking about a treat. She prepares macaroni and cheese for my sister in Arizona, spaghetti w/meat sauce for my brother in Virginia, pinto beans for my baby brother, okra and tomatoes for me, buttered rice for my sister in Waller, mustard greens for my sister in Houston, cake for my sister in Humble and skillet bread for all of us.

It does not matter that we are all older with our own families, we all love being "tagged" by our Mom with her good down home cooking. Yum!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

The Girls

Tonight, I "tagged" Angela's girls - five of them. Angela has to work on Thursday night so the girls have not been able to attend Bible study. I was able to pick them up tonight and off to Bible study we went.

It was a blessing that I got them for a number of reasons. One: everyone was excited to see them. Two: Brittney needed a head shot by Saturday for a presentation...check, Jim Dahl had his camera and agreed to take the photo and send it to her via e-mail. Three: pSal prayed with her for calm and clarity with her presentation. Four: Makaliah read me a poem she wrote.

After church, I took them home and as they got out of the car, Alexis turned and "tagged" me with "thank you so much for taking us to church." My heart melted. She was so sincere and appreciative. She is such a sweetheart. Actually, they all are.

Angela, you have done a great job with them. Kudos to you!

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

My book cover

Got some good news today.

I have been trying to find a student to help me design the cover for my book. Yesterday, I decided to contact the IT intern coordinator at a local school where I volunteer. The good news: I have a meeting with the coordinator and two students on Friday.

Once I get the cover designed, I will be ready to have my book WOO, WHAM, WHOA, WHEE, WOW, 5 Stages of a Relationship, published.

In the words of my grandson -- I gotta stay focused!!

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Hot off the press--almost

My CD is almost ready. Alex has been working working to refine what I presented to him last week.

I say almost ready because I just gave him the music today. I can hardly wait to listen to the finished product. I still don't have a cover for the CD or my book, WOO, WHAM, WHOA, WHEE, WOW, The 5 Stages of a Relationship. I just might use my picture that Lori took of me at the park.

Before the CD is published in any quantity, I say thank you to Alex for making it happen and Lori for my photo. I will also use my Lori photo on the back cover of my book.

As I prepare for the June 8 Teleseminar, His Needs, I am more organized and focused. I guess it's because I have "been there, done that!" I am already looking for music so that I will be able to give the recording to Alex along with the music.

I almost forgot to give my husband kudos -- he was my music critic. He has an excellent ear for music. Thanks J.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Mother's Day Tag (Continued)

Today was a fabulous day. Mom and I went to church where we heard another awesome message from pSal.

We came home and had some of my gumbo. Mom told me how good it was...she backed that up by eating two servings.

Mom was in contact with her children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, sister and friends. She had a wonderful Mother's Day. I thank God for giving us another year to celebrate my Mom.

Thanks Mom for everything (especially the discipline!!) we are who and what we are because we had loving and caring parents.

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Mother's Day Tag

My Mother's Day "Tag" for my Mom was a ticket to see the play A Flea in Her Ear at the Texas Repertory Theater. It was hilarous because my Mother laughed a lot. She had a wonderful time.

One of the volunteers asked me -- "Is that your sister?" She was referring to my Mom!

Tomorrow Mom will go to church with me and then I will take her home. In pray she has a wonderful Mother's Day

Love you, Mom.

Leadercast 2010

Yesterday was such an enjoyable yet tiring day that I forgot to enter a post.

My day started at 5 a.m. That's right, 5 a.m. and for those of you who know me know that I do not get up before 7 a.m. (or later). I arrived at the site at 6 a.m. and people were there preparing the coffee, breakfast treats, etc.

Houston Coaches collaborated with the Y in hosting Leadercast 2010. It was live via simulcast from Atlanta and it was wonderful. The line up of speakers was second to none and I was worried about being able to pay attention. What was I thinking -- there was no way I could not pay attention with
--Tripp Crosby and his humor (TNT Airlines...it's the bomb!!),
--Connie Podesta,
--Tony Dungy (inspiring),
--Jim Goodnight (had me laughing out very very loud as he kept a straight face),
--Steve Uzzell (added a totally new dimension to photography for me),
--Ed Bastian (liked his style)
--John Maxwell (shared keys to connecting with others) (I have been reading his books for year and did not realize he is so very humorous but he is)(let me not forget to mention I love those red shoes!!), and
--Ben Carson who inspired us, challenged us and put every rapper to shame as he took about a minute to describe -- medically--how we process and respond to a question.

That is not all I took in yesterday. I was fascinated by a member of Houston Coaches, as she tweeted. She kept over 100 followers in the loop about the conference.

Oh, I almost forgot to mention Darla with her contagious smile. She was simply elegant...dressed in black and white. She knew many of the participants and greeted them by name as they entered the facility. After the conference, she told me that she would not get up at 5 a.m. for anyone but me! Darla and I are connected (-:

Let me not fail to mention that I looked cute too. I was the one dressed in the bright red Chick-fil-A Leadercast shirt. I was not alone, several of us from Houston Coaches were dressed alike, Margaret, John and Bill.

Our president was a star as well, she introduced Carla Powers and mentioned that a coach from Houston Coaches was seated at every table.

The committee that put the directory together deserve special kudos because it was exceptional, excellent, outstanding and very professionally done.

The Coaches Wall was an eye catcher. The wall consisted of an individual poster of each coach who attended the conference. The poster included a professional photo, a bio, our specialty and a list of our favorite books. Ann came up with a brilliant idea -- she took the list of books submitted by each coach and made one complete list. How cleaver. After reviewing her list, I have got some serious reading to do.

Wendy (I wont give your real name and you know that I know it!) and her committee members prepared the facilitator/coach/appointment cards for the participants. Great idea--made our job easy.

Of course John was there with his camera. My photo was snapped while I was adjusting my gig line--can't wait to see that one!!

Can you tell I had a fun time and learned a little something?

Save the date for Leadercast 201l -- May 6, 2011. See you there.

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Loss of memory

Yesterday, May 5 was a wonderful day and I forgot to blog. Our grandson invited us to Zooming Out for a Global View 2010 held at Annenberg Presidential Conference Center at Texas A&M. He invited us because he was on the program, actually, his group placed third. What an honor. We drove the 80 miles up and back because he asked us to and we were glad to do it.

The relationship "tag" for me was that I had the opportunity to meet my grandson's friend Cory. I have heard so much about Cory and I finally got to meet him. I also met another friend of his, Brandon. I already knew Layne. What a wonderful group of young men. They are creative, smart and very respectful.

Although I had a memory loss and forgot to blog yesterday, I am encouraged about the future after meeting these find young men. They are awesome!

As for today, May 6, it has been fast and furious. Leadercast 2010 has been on the minds of Houston Coaches all week. We put up the coaches wall this afternoon and it looks great. I even got a nice red Chick-fil-A shirt to wear tomorrow. I am looking forward to the excitement and sharing of ideas.

Leadercast 2011 will be even better.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Excited

I am so excited, I just can't hid it! I am working on my second teleseminar. Actually, this will be the third teleseminar - the first two were on the same subject.

I truly believe getting this information to couples (married, engaged or dating) will help build lasting relationships. I have got to come up with some catchy titles for this Teleseminar. I have better stories this go around. Maybe that's why I am excited?

To top off my excitement about the teleseminar, my grandson called me tonight. He invited me to a presentation he will be doing tomorrow at A&M. He apologized for the "short notice" but wanted to make sure I knew. I will be on my way to Bryan tomorrow morning to support him. This is academics not athletics so there is NO question that I will be there.

He told me his grades are good and that he thinks he might make all A's this grading period.

Trust me, he knows that all A's means ALL A's not 5 A's and one B!

Monday, May 3, 2010

Tagged with a hand full of grapes

I went shopping and found the biggest juiciest grapes. I purchases three pounds because they were perfect.

When I got home, I washed the grapes to place them in the fruit basket and before I could get a paper towel to drain them I heard "I want some!"

So I tagged him with a hand full of grapes. The he I am referring to is my husband. Had I known he would be so excited about some grapes, I would have gotten SIX pounds!

I love it when I do something so simple that brings him so much joy.

Tomorrow, I am going to buy more grapes!

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Tagged by pSal

This was no ordinary Sunday, it was special. My Pastor, pSal PREACHED today. Her message stirred me up.

We are doing a series at our church, FCI-Embassy Church, on the Happy Attitudes of Jesus. She told us there is a benefit for every be-happy attitude, the misconceptions about being a peacemaker, and five ways to be at peace.

She also told us if we are not peacemakers, it hinders our prayers and our happiness.

Her acrostic for PEACE was very timely.
P - Plan a peace conference
E - Emphatize with their feelings
A - Attack the problem, not the person
C - Cooperate as much as possible
E - Emphasize reconciliation not resolution

Now, if this does not bless ya, well...

pSal, you were all the way off the chain with this message. Thanks for "tagging" me with a message to carry me through the week. Well, until Thursday when you do Reprise and get me stirred up again.

Love, you pSal

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Better

Today was much better than yesterday. I "tagged" my husband by working in his garden! Yes, I was digging in the dirt, cutting and planting vegetable. He appreciated the help and I must admit that it wasn't that bad...a little hot and humid though.

After "tagging" him, I was able to get some shopping in. That made my day great. Tomorrow will be even better than today.

Friday, April 30, 2010

No good deed goes unpunished

I find myself caught up in a mess and I know better. I accepted a position for a project with my coaching organization in the middle of the project. Actually, it was not in the middle it is more like the last five weeks of a five month planned project.

I wanted so badly to tell the president to find someone else but I didn't because the conference is next Friday. That is just not how I work.

After next Friday, I will be finished with this and that will take care of me volunteering in the middle of a project. It's kinda like sewing a garment someone else cut and they took the pattern instruction sheet with them! I think I said volunteering is a rewarding experience...well, sometimes it is and sometimes, it isn't.

No tags given or received today. Only barbs received and given. Tomorrow will be a better day because I will make it a better day.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Thankful for my family

Having a loving family is a blessing. Today, I spoke with with my niece. We only spoke for about 15 minutes, but we did some catching up. She is in school studying avionics. I told her she will not have a problem getting a job. How many female avionic mechanics do you know?

I mentioned to her that I wanted to travel to Montana. She had a good laugh on that one then she asked "what's in Montana that you want to see?" I had to admit that I want to go to Montana just because I have never been there. She asked me if I had been to Portland. I think she might have been trying to bring me back to reality or forget about going to Montana. She convinced me that Portland is a better choice.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Double tagged today

Not one but two "tags" today.

The day started off a little rocky for me. I had to deal with a technician who was trying to sell me a deal he thought I could not refuse when all I wanted was to install Norton anti virus on my laptop. Proved him wrong.

After interacting with him, I called Norton again for help and was blessed to get a wonderful technician. She was not only efficient but very friendly. She asked about my family, how I spend my weekends and shared with me that she would like to attend the University of Mississippi to continue her studies in microbiology.

A short time after taking remote access of my computer, she had Norton installed. She said "I have a surprise for you." Of course, she really had my interest then...a surprise for ME. She "tagged" me by extending my Norton coverage for an additional 60days and did not once try to sell me a "tune up package " for my laptop.

My second "tag" came when Alex, Brandi's husband patiently worked with me this evening to record a CD of my recent Teleseminars on the 5 Stages of a Relationship. He downloaded the recordings of the Teleseminars on to his computer and started editing. He is making my product look and sound so professional. This "tag" is special because I had no idea how I was going to get my CD completed. Thanks Alex and Brandi for extending yourselves for my cause...helping couples develop lasting relationships.

Double "tags" today maybe triple tomorrow.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

My nephew tagged me today

Today, I called my sister-in-law to say hello; however, to my surprise, my nephew answered the phone. (He sounds just like his dad, my brother -- he even laughs like him.)

I have not seen him in a l-o-n-g time. He is in the Air Force and is just returning from a remote tour.

When I realized it was my nephew, I screamed his name. I was soooooo happy to hear his voice and just chat with him.

I immediately had a flashback or two about him as a young boy. He was charming, loving, animated and quite humorous. Actually, I was putty in his hands and he knew it. I let him play jokes on me, listened to him recant his famous baseball plays, beat me playing games, posed for him to draw a picture of me when in reality he was drawing his thumb! He had me preparing french toast at his beck and call because "I made the best french toast in the world." (I could not resist those loving eyes and that smile of his!)

He told me he is being transferred to Hawaii and my comment to that was -- I am coming to visit you...for real. He reminded me that I have told him that before and he is going to hold me to it this time.

I know he is an adult but he is still MY little nephew and I am very proud of him. He is a wonderful husband, a great father, son, brother, and nephew.

I am thankful for his service to our country.

If I could get to where he is, his breakfast menu would include my french toast. However, since I can not, I will just have to show up in Hawaii to prepare him and his family a batch of the best french toast in the world.

This was the best relationship "tag" an aunt could ask for.

Love you J.

Monday, April 26, 2010

Comforting my friend

My friend's son was killed in an automobile accident four or five weeks ago. I think of her often and when I do, I pray for her. I also text her to let her know she is not alone nor forgotten.

Generally, a week or so after a tragedy everyone heads home and you are left alone to deal with your grief. I know that from experience and knowing that has helped me remember to comfort my friend. As I mentioned earlier, I text her when I think of her and pray for her often.

Today, I spoke with her and she was sobbing. That made my heart ache. As a mother I ached and as a mother who has lost a child, I ached more. We chatted and I asked if she journaled and she said she use to and knows the value of journaling. She said, you know, I don't know what to write. That was my opportunity to comfort her. I suggested that she writes whatever she is feeling... like today, I hurt.

I believe that resonated with her because she said "I can do that."

To bed, to bed sleepy head

Sunday, April 25
After taking my darling grandson home, I came home, ate dinner, chatted with my husband and decided to lie down for a few minutes. Well, a few minutes turned into hours. I woke up at 4:03 a.m. Monday morning. My point? I did not blog yesterday and that is my excuse or reason.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

I found a new friend at Wal-mart

Most of us go to Wal-mart to find bargains. I generally do; however, tonight, I found a new friend.

Our conversation started over a tri-fold poster board then on to discussing relationships. This gave me the opportunity to share my business card with her and refer her to my website to get the title of a book.

She got teary, we hugged and she told me she and her husband were separated and it hurts sometimes when she thinks about it.

This was a wonderful opportunity to "tag" a new friend to let her know she is not alone and to stand on the Word. I know she will be fine because she knows the Lord and is a strong black woman.

Sister, I am praying for you and your family. God is still in control.

Friday, April 23, 2010

D.

About 1 p.m. this afternoon, I noticed I missed a call and there was a voice mail. I dialed my voice mail and heard: "GiGi I know it's a short notice but can you come pick me up today after school?"

I immediately called back to confirm that I would pick D. up after school -- on short notice.

Me, miss an opportunity to "tag" my grandson, NO WAY. I got dressed and took off. The 80 mile drive seemed like 10 miles because of the anticipation of seeing D. and the kids. I even got to see the cat who was taking in the warmth of the sun. He was sprawled on the living room window seal like he owned the place! Everyone knows how much I must have enjoyed that. Not!!!

In spite of seeing the cat first after driving 80 miles one way, my day was complete as D. and I drove back to Houston with the top down seeing who could spot the most Slug Bugs. I know I won but he said he beat me because I pushed him instead of tagging him when I spotted a Slug Bug. He counted that as his sighting.

Well, for the joy I get from being with him this weekend, it is OKAY for him to have won the Slug Bug sighting contest. I count the trip in my win column because I got to "tag" him with lots of hugs, kisses and laughs.

We always have a fun time when we are together.

D., Love you dude.

p.s. I let you win!

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Relationship Tag for the day

I met several people yesterday at the Constant Contact workshop. We exchanged business cards and I sent almost everyone I met an e-mail last evening telling them it was great meeting them.

Today, I received a "tag" from Christopher Passmore, A1 Shredding, Inc. He connected with me...and I just want to let him know I appreciate him staying in touch. When someone mentions they need documents shredded, you bet I'll be referring them to Christopher.

Did I mention my favorite son is named Christopher? So, this Christopher has to be A-OK.

Aren't all Christophers A-OK? In my book they are.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

No Tags Today

Not having received or given a "tag" today does not make me feel like I accomplished very much.

Not sure what happened early today but stuff happened before I left going to a workshop.

On the up side, I had my second teleseminar on 5 Stages of a Relationship. It was OK. Now, I have to get both sessions recorded on one CD and get a CD cover made. I also have a completed draft of the book 5 Stages of a Relationship and it needs a cover as well.

That's about all I have to talk about.

Nite! Nite! Tomorrow will be better because I will make it a better day.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

PJs are wonderful

Working from home is totally awesome. I had a productive day in spite of being in my PJs until late morning.

I have to go out tomorrow, so I'll have to dress up!

Working on my book, Five Stages of a Relationship to complement my Teleseminar of the same title. I am on roll. It had to be the PJs that inspired me!

Monday, April 19, 2010

Happy Birthday Buddy

After a long week, I use Monday as my administrative day and I sleep in. I did not do that today because today is my husband's birthday and I needed every minute to prepare the dinner he requested.

Today, he got the biggest "tag" I have given him in a long time. I threw down in the kitchen. I prepared steamed ribs (my special), mustard and collard greens (they were not healthy), rice, my famous virgin potato salad (my friend in Dayton, OH gave it that name), sweet potatoes, cornbread muffins and sweet tea. A meal fit for...my buddy.

Happy Birthday Buddy - we do what we can!

Sunday, April 18, 2010

How to be Happy

It ain't about someone else making me happy, it's about me being happy from the inside out!

The message today at church drove the point home -- My happiness is not determined by what's happening around me, but by what's happening in me.

Happiness is a choice. I think myself happy... Acts 26:2

Oh Happy Day!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Forgiveness is powerful

Have you ever found yourself in the position of having to tell your mate something that you did that was not exactly favorable?

Well, remember that Jesus died on the cross for our sins. He has paid the price and all we have to repent -- repent and ask for forgiveness. He is faithful and just to forgive us.

Others may be hurt by our actions; however, once we repent and ask for forgiveness, the healing process starts. We then have to walk the talk. We must do what we said we will do and not waiver. Be strong in the Lord and courageous. Do NOT go back to your old behavior. Remember, you repented and asked for forgiveness. Everyday, ask God for strength.

Forgiveness is powerful. Sincere repentance brings about forgiveness. You must display behavior that demonstrates you are truly remorseful for your actions and do every thing to walk uprightly before the Lord and man.

Time brings about a change and so will your actions.

Friday, April 16, 2010

Tagged by his mother-in-law

In building and sustaining relationships with each other, it is amazing how easy it is to "tag" someone with small things that bring them much joy.

My husband's birthday is Monday; however, he was "tagged" today by his mother-in-law with a homemade lemon meringue pie. The "tag" is special for him because this is his absolute favorite dessert. Happy Birthday from your mother-in-law

Thanks Mom for being so thoughtful. I was happy to drive 50 miles (one way) to your house to pick up your "tag" for my husband.

We both made him happy today.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

A tag for Mrs. G.


Beautiful Azaleas on what is another very nice day in the city.

Mrs. G. is a wonderful lady on our meals on wheels route. She always tells me I smell good as she gives me a hug. She loves good smelling perfume so today, I "tagged" her with some Bath and Body Works shower gel. She was so happy --she gave me another hug. I love my relationship with Mrs. G. She is very appreciative for everything done for her and she always flashes a big smile when she opens her door and sees me.

I feel good after my three minute visit with her. That's right, we only share about three minutes together and those three minutes are valuable to both of us.

You know, I believe Mrs. G would love these beautiful azaleas!

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Volunteering - a rewarding experience

Volunteering is such a rewarding experience. I had the pleasure of volunteering today at Carl Wunsche Senior High School as a Judge for the Senior Capstone project.

The students were all from the pre-law program and gave some thought provoking presentations on subjects like: immigration, abortion, DNA, sexual harassment, ultra sounds, sports agents, voting as it related to the 2000 presidential election, teen court proceedings and many more subjects.

These students were technologically sound. They incorporated clips from movies, you tube and videos into their PowerPoint presentations. Their presentation skills were excellent and they were well versed in their particular subjects.

Spending the day with these young people was a blessing and a learning experience. I think I will sign up to volunteer again next year.

Kudos to all the Seniors who presented their Capstone program today. Fantastic job!

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

A BIG accomplishment for Me

Today was another beautiful day...a perfect 10.

I am so excited with my accomplishment today. You will not guess so I will tell you what I accomplished.

I successfully completed my first Teleseminar all by myself. It was scheduled for 90 minutes; however, I finished 15 minutes early because there was only one question. Next time I conduct a Teleseminar, I will schedule it for 75 minutes and closely manage my time.

The Teleseminar was recorded and it will be put on a CD. The next step is to work with a graphic artist to design a cover and I will have another product to place on my website shopping cart page.

My darling friend, Sandy Lawrence, Perceptive Marketing, just "tagged" us on FB with a powerful passage from the Bible. She is such an angel.

Time to close everything down. I have an early appointment so off to bed I go.

Thank you Lord for all that you allow me to do. I am grateful.

Tagged when I least expected it

Today is Monday and that means I work on administrative duties. Today was different because I had a meeting to attend. I am glad I had the opportunity to be a part of the group, Houston Coaches, Inc., planning committee for Leadercast 2010.

I met the project manager, Amber, wow, what an inspiration. She is smart, young, energetic, friendly and doesn't mind sharing with others. She offered to help me with linking my blog, website, facebook and linkedin together and I didn't have to twist her arm. Normally when I ask someone questions about technology stuff, I get vague shallow responses. Not today, Amber and I will meet next Tuesday and I know I will be a social media hotshot when she finishes with me.

I wasn't expecting to be "tagged" at that meeting; however, I must remember, anywhere anytime I can get "tagged."

Amber, thank you for the "tag."

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Grandfather tags Grandson

Today, the BIG "tag" was from Grandfather to Grandson. Our Grandson asked my husband if we had the ingredients to make shrimp fried rice. After giving it some thought, my husband said no we don't.

Our thoughtful Grandson said, "can you make some the next time I come?" Sure was the reply.

Well, to my surprise and of course to our Grandson's surprise, my husband had shrimp fried rice prepared when we came home from church. Grandfather "tagged" Grandson with something he really wanted and wasn't expecting until the next time he visited.

That's what relationship "tags" are all about. Giving to others something that makes their day.

Grandfather, you made Grandson's day -- and the truth be told, you made Grandmother's day as well.

Thanks Buddy. That was a totally awesome "tag."

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Toastmasters to jewelry

I was up at the crack of dawn (on a Saturday, that would be 7:00 a.m.) because I planned to attend another Toastmasters Division contest. I heard some excellent speeches and got to visit with some Toastmasters friends I have not seen in a long time. Michael Williams won first place. Congratulations Michael -- on to District in a couple of weeks.

I got home just in time to answer a call from my niece in Maryland. Although the call was not for me, we spoke for about 45 minutes. She was enjoying some chips and salsa as we touched on a number of subjects: her adult children, webpages, facebook, her new job, to her jewelry line. I hope I remember to tell her uncle, my husband, to return her call.

Friday, April 9, 2010

Tagged by my grandson

Another beautiful day and it is special for my husband and me because our favorite grandson (we only have one) is spending the weekend with us.

I was not home when they got home because I was out "tagging" and hugging members of my Toastmasters family at a Division contest.

When I did get home, I let my grandson know I was home by switching the light on and off several times. He came out of his room, stood at the top of the stairs with a gigantic smile on his face, ran down the stairs and gave me a TEXAS size hug.

Now, that's a "tag" for a grandmother who has not seen her favorite grandson in two weeks.

Love that Dude.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Tagged or Bribed

Today was another beautiful day, a perfect 10. When I got up, my husband informed me that he was going to take me to lunch at a new seafood restaurant not to far from hour home. I was elated. He was going to "tag" me with lunch.

We ordered gumbo, fried shrimp and catfish and it was delicious. When we finished, we headed home and my husband asked me if I would help him put his new grill together.

My first thought was: did I get bribed instead of "tagged."

At any rate, I helped him put the grill together and considered it a "tag" from me to him with intentions of asking him to smoke me some baby back ribs and Down Home Sausage--tomorrow.

The question of the day is who got "tagged" and who got bribed? It really doesn't matter as long as I get "tagged" tomorrow with smoked ribs and sausage.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Tagged by my favorite daughter

Talking about getting "tagged" - Today, my favorite daughter (I only have one) "tagged" me with a beautiful dress. I was beaming about the dress, but the BIG deal about this "tag" is that the dress arrived via the Postal Service.

No big deal you say? Well, let me share with you how BIG a deal it is. My darling daughter purchased the dress on Monday...like two days ago Monday and I received it today. That means she purchased the dress and immediately went to the Post Office and mailed it! That's the BIG deal.

I really am excited about my new dress and surprised that she mailed it along with some other stuff she has been riding around in her vehicle for, oh, say the past three weeks!

Thanks daughter for being so kind to your Mother. You are a blessing to me and I love you more than the "world can contain."

You are my favorite.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Relationship Tag for the Day

Today the weather was beautiful as we delivered Meals on Wheels. I was able to "tag" everyone on our route with a smile and kind words.

Mrs. G., one of the clients, always tells me I smell good and that she loves my fragrance. Well, today, I "tagged" her with the fragrance I was wearing: Chloe. Yes, Chloe. She smiled and "tagged" me a BIG hug.

I have been wearing Chloe for almost 35 years and it still enjoy wearing it. My husband "tagged" me with a HUGH bottle of Chloe last Christmas. Oh, I guess that was a gift.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Relationship Tag for the Day

Today was a very busy and productive day for me. Got lots of administrative stuff completed, listened to a teleseminar then headed into town to attend a meeting this evening. I almost forgot to post an entry.

I did not give a relationship "tag" today. How in the world did I manage to not give a "tag?"

Reflecting on my day, I know exactly how I forgot to give a "tag." I was so caught up in being productive that I did not give one single "tag." Thank God other people in my life were not to busy to "tag" me.

My niece Mary and my friend Melanie sent me a FB message. They were not to busy to "tag" me nor was my daughter who took time out of her very busy schedule to "tag" me with a call.

I am going to do better tomorrow --

Promise.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Relationship Tag for the Day

Today was a great day. Off to church where I heard a wonderful sermon that made me appreciate my relationship with Jesus more than you can imagine.

My nephew Larry, his wife Jenna, my niece Alicia and their little ones "tagged" me today. They drove across town to worship with me. After church, we all came back to my house for a delicious dinner (their words, not mine!).

I am grateful for my relationship with Jesus as well as with my family. I hope everyone was "tagged" today and their day was special. My family sure made my day special.

Thanks guys.

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Relationship Tag for the Day

Today was a wonderful day. The weather was a 10 in my book - mild temperatures and low humidity. My husband "tagged" me by preparing breakfast for me and my Mom...well, I had to cook the eggs. (I still count that as a "tag.")

My Mom and I went to DSW and found some great bargains then we visited my sister after shopping. One of the topics of discussion was Tiger Woods. All three of us agreed that Tiger should get back to playing golf and continue working on repairing his relationship with Elin. Now that is what Tiger should do. What we (the public) should do is "tag" Tiger and Elin by giving them the same level of privacy we would like to have IF we found ourselves in a similar situation.

Relationships are important to me. Marriages are important to me. Tiger and Elin I am praying for you and your family.

www.info@connectingheartscoaching.com

Friday, April 2, 2010

Relationship Tag for the Day

Since I am all about relationships, my "tag" for today is for my Mother. I tagged her by taking her to the Texas Repertory Theater to see Barefoot in the Park. It was a wonderful comedy and my Mother laughed a lot and often. She thoroughly enjoyed herself and that made me happy.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Tag for the day

My husband has already received two "tags" today... a two arm 20 second hug AND I also put lotion on his feet. He really loves that "tag." Two "tags" so far and it is still morning!

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Me and technology

I have arrived. 2010 has been an adventurous year for me so far -- here I am blogging!!

What new adventurous "tag" will I add to my relationship in the month of April...
We shall see.